"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them." Psalm 127:3-5

July 23, 2012

Gone Fishin'!

On Friday afternoon I was working on finishing a project quickly before putting my sweet boys down for a nap.  At precisely the time I was ready to call them up, Elliott comes upstairs to show me what he had been diligently working on at the kitchen table for the last few minutes.  My little monkey had found a very large stick, resourcefully gotten the kite string down from its basket in the garage, and constructed his very own version of a fishing pole. 

So what did we do? 
 We abandoned naps for the day and headed down the street to the duck pond.
To say they were excited is an understatement!
 All of these ducks had been resting peacefully on the bank but quickly fled to the safe confines of the water as my anything-but-quiet brood of boys announced their arrival. 
 Elliott immediately sat down and got to work.  He was excited because, "See, Mom!  There's even a hook on the end that the fish will get caught on." 
 Gabe got to work quickly as well.  He hastily tossed in our entire package of bait, upsetting his brothers and himself that there was nothing left.  (It should be noted that our bait was hot dog buns.  I insisted we not waste time looking for worms in our parched, cracked soil before we left the house.) 
 After Gabe had disposed of our bait, we realized we had another problem.  Somehow, in the 3 minutes it took us to get from our house to the pond, Caleb had misplaced his paperclip.  "There's no way I will catch a fish without it, Mom.  The paperclip was going to hook the fish."  I agreed to head home but made them sit by each other first so I could get this photo.  I only got one shot because no sooner had they heard the shutter and they were back on their bikes, Gabe in the stroller, and we were headed back home to gather more equipment. 
 We put together another line with a new paperclip for C-man.  He could hardly contain his excitement.  I grabbed a stale loaf of bread so we could have more bait and we headed back out the door. 
 Caleb wasted no time casting his "line" and as you can see Gabe was already busy at work tossing in bread.  (This time I tore up the pieces into tiny chunks in hopes that it would last longer!)  There are some seriously large fish in this pond.  You can see one to the right of Caleb's line, coming up to eat some of the bread.  The boys inform me that they are small mouth bass.  It could be, for all I know, which is nothing. 
 I desperately wanted to capture the fish as they surfaced but the little boogers are too fast for me.  You can see the dark shadow of one underneath the ripples. 
 Gabe was a faithful bait distributor the entire time.  "FISH!" He would yell with each toss.  The amount of bread he gave them might have something to do with their size. 
 Though Elliott was the mastermind behind this entire plan, he didn't have the capacity to maintain the life of a fisherman for long.  It might be that he can't sit still (except for but a second for me to snap these cute photos of him) or it might be that he is always hatching another plan, or it might be that he is three and is part monkey or part squirrel or both. 
  
 Caleb, on the other hand, could have stayed here until next Friday. Though at firstI had to convince him that he needed to leave his paperclip hook in until he felt something tugging, it didn't take long for him to catch on. This boy of mine was convinced that he would actually catch a fish with his make-shift equipment. And boy did he try.  And he looked so cute doing it! 

 We finally had to call it quits when Gabers reached in and grabbed the last piece of bread. No more bait meant no more fish. 

 I requsted they all it together for one last shot.  They obliged! 
No one caught any fish on Friday, but I caught a whole bunch of memories on my camera so that they might not ever forget the Friday when mom let them skip naps! 

July 17, 2012

My Summer Delight

Summer has been an especially delightful time with my sweet Caleb! 



Shortly after Caleb turned one he started getting cyclical fevers.  The fever would come each month on the 27th, spike to as high as 105.6, last 5 days (3 days of high fever, a break for one day, and then one more day of a lower fever), and would be accompanied by mouth blisters on the inside of his mouth.  My poor baby, though unaware of the calendar, was able to tell us the day before his fever would come that is was coming.  For nearly 4 years, there was rarely a month that he didn't have his fever.  And since his birthday is on the 27th, he had never celebrated a birthday without an accompanying fever.  Caleb has what is known as PFAPA (Periodic Fever Aphthous Stomatitis, Pharyngitis, Adenitis Syndrome).  You might imagine how this has affected his short life! 

Nearing the end of his fours, the fevers started to become a little less predictable and further apart.  Praise the Lord, our sweet boy got celebrate his 5th birthday fever free! 
(These were from Caleb's 5th Wild Kratts Birthday we had for him at an aquarium!)

Instead of his fevers, however, we started to see our boy display uncharacteristic behavior for him.  He would feel as though he was getting a fever, his eyes would become dark and sunken, he would be highly irritable, extremely hyper, unattentive, destructive, obnoxiously loud, generally defiant and abnormally emotional. During these days, he would rarely smile.  Then as quick as it set in, it would leave and Caleb would be "himself."

I didn't understand what was happening for quite some time.  I was quick to think he was just "rebelling" and even quicker to assume that something was severely affecting his body and we needed to figure it out.  It took me a while to discover that while he was experiencing such odd behavior, he also had a mouth full of blisters just like the ones he has during his cyclical fever.  This was so helpful for me.  Instead of  the constant battle inside me of fearing the state of his little heart or fearing what others thought of his behavior or my parenting, I grew in compassion for this boy of mine.  I finally started to see that a lot of what was going on with him, he couldn't help.  And we worked together to cope with what he could. 

What does this all have to do with this summer, you might be wondering, afterall that is what I started with at the beginning of this post?  Good question.  Last summer, Caleb was affected the. entire. summer. by these crazy blisters and disturbing behavior.  Last summer I was also battling a deep depression that wouldn't seem to lift.  These two things were an especially challenging (overwhelming) combo! 

This summer I am delighting in the ability to delight.  I used to take joy for granted; but this summer I am consistently overwhelmed that God is helping me to experience joy again.  I used to pompously think, "Just hope in the Lord."  Now I know that it isn't as easy as that sounds.  This summer I am overwhelmed by the truth that though I felt nothing last summer (except sadness and despair and sometimes not even those), that as a child of God, redeemed by grace, my lot was always secure in Jesus.  

This summer I am delighting in domino races....



....and battleship challenges...




...and waterslides at the pool, and sprinklers and buckets of water on these very hot days...


This summer I am delighting in this sweet boy and the blissful blisterless last six weeks. 

July 10, 2012

These Faces

These are the faces that I love: 

 these sparkly-blue-eyed-smiley faces,

 these I'm-so-cool-now-without-training-wheels faces,

these I'm-gonna-get-you faces

 these do-you-have-to-take-another-one faces,

 these check-out-THIS-strawberry faces,

 these handsome-as-a-devil faces,

 these deteremined-to-get-this-done-on-my-own faces,

these filled-with-awe-at-the-post-game-fireworks faces,

 these silly-willy faces,

 these swinging-is-so-fun faces,

 these you-finally-wore-me out faces,

 these cheesy-peesy-I-love-balloons faces,

 these what-is-on-my-head faces,

and even these pouty-pants faces.

I just love these faces of all my guys!